I am more understanding and patient than most... but ones situation does not give license to sell items that have issues and describe them as mint and barely used then try to imply that the buyer may have broken the item as it was perfect when in his ownership.
That being said... he has stopped arguing about it and seems the be working on getting the refund sent within the next 3-5 days according to his latest message,, I will give him another 5 days before I invoke Ebay's collection process where Ebay steps in to resolve it.
I am fully aware of the economic strife going on out there. I'm sympathetic if it puts the guy in a bind if he is unemployed and scrimping for bills but I should not be forced to accept a defective item because he claims it is fine, that a deceptive business practice and dishonest. I can guarantee the next person to buys this item it will have the same issues that I found with it.