tstern66":301y3mmd said:
4406cuda":301y3mmd said:
Times have changed a lot. It was safe to let your kids walk to school. Fights in school did not include weapons. Kids were more physically active and weren't glued to social media or TV. Great music, great concerts, and great times.
People were more honest and not afraid of being PC. Teens were tougher. I can't believe that teens are crying about the elections and need a safe room and counseling.
As Clint Eastwood recently said, it is the pussy generation.
Don't forget that some colleges gave the students crayons and play dough to calm them down after the election. Lol.
Sad part is these "students" today are the products of parents themselves that grew up in the 70's and 80's. The best era ever? So why weren't those great things handed down? If the kids of that time were tougher and not as emo... wtf happened to their kids (now college and HS students).
70's 80's kids claimed: our parents were tough on us, teachers too. They weren't our "friends", we had maybe 4 presents at Christmas, we ate only what was on the table or we didn't eat at all, we could only take ONE sport or E.C activity. Our ADHD problems were fixed with ass beatings or sticking your nose in a corner for hours.
Those kids from the 70's and 80's that got their asses beat when they were bad, had paddling at school, feared the principal or gym teacher somehow created a new era for their child rearing that included the many things "emo" and "feel good" policy, no physical discipline ever, spoiling their kids with stuff galore, buying them phones since 4th grade, making them special dinners when they didn't like a meal everyone else ate for dinner, and became more of friends to their kids because they wanted to have that graduate say "and to my parents... the best friends ever!!"
Those students, are products of the people from that wonder generation.
Something to ponder
I see these memes on FB that show 80's teens and these captions about their generation was tough, but kids today? Then all these responses of "yeah we were bad ass and cool, not like the pussies today". In one I responded "I think you just called your own offspring pussies"........... and the thread went silent
I too am a kid from the wonder era we all love! I also fought hard against the changing family dynamic, and the "friends before parents" roles many played. I fought the schools on their policy of passing students that didn't earn the grade, but instead blamed it on immaturity and said we'll pass them anyway and they'll catch up later. It is more harm to the child when he does not move ahead with his peers. I fought all of that bullshit and was told I'm an asshole for not supporting the needs of the kids. MY parents and their barbaric methods were too mean.
We built them up, we created the environment for the attitudes we are seeing.
and.. here we are... So, why did we change the things that made us stronger? Was it Oprah? 3-5PM talk shows our wives watched? The depictions of families in Sitcoms we hoped to have? What was the driving force that created the way we do things today? Boy George maybe?