Telephant
Active member
I have a chance to fly out to LA and record an album with a phenomenal engineer/producer next week. Problem is, none of my bandmates can afford it. You'd think they'd scrape anything they have together and get their asses out there but they cant/wont. Its not like they're married or have kids. The drummer plays in Honky and sells weed ro make a living. The bass player is running a cafe inside a hair salon. They told me they can get the time off but they just dont have the money to get out there.
So, I told the engineer/producer to find some session players. He's going to lay down bass and keys and he found a drummer.
Now the kicker, I dont feel bad about using session players. I wrote the music, lyrics, and did all the arrangement. Also, the bass player is the weakest link. He's got great feeling, but not the chops, and he doesnt contribute to the writing because he doesnt write our style of music. My drummer is good, but he's also a flake. And even the drummer agrees we need a better bass player but since they're best friends, he doesnt have the heart too tell him either.
Why I do feel bad: Because they're my friends. I dont want to hurt their feelings, but at the same Id be foolish to pass on this opportunity. And deep down I think this record will sound better because they're not playing on it. And thats a terrible thing to say.
Now a little back story: The reason we even got this gig is because Ed D hooked us up with a gig at NAMM. They couldnt afford to pay for that trip either. So I payed for all their plane tickets, and their room. Around $2000 for all of us. They never paid me back.
I just talked to the bass player and asked him again if he could make it out, and he said no. I didnt have the heart to tell him I was planning on going out without them. Im trying to avoid tellng them because its obviously going to suck. And Im wondering what they'll do when I do tell them. Will they quit? Will they be pissed off for awhile and then continue to play live with me? My goal is to make this album, shop it, and see what happens. But if it gets picked up, will I have to find new band members? Most likely.
Part of me just wants to take my music and split. As if this is an excuse to finally get rid of them and start moving forward with better musicians and connections. Ive already got a friend who will play bass (and do a better job of it, and he can sing backup!).
So Im selling out my bandmates and going for it. In the meantime, Im also pushing The Bexar County Bastards hard. We've got some great gigs lined up and we've already started booking a west coast tour in february with a band from Norway called The Dirty Callahans.
Thing is, Im unsure how to tell BTD Im going out there. Should I just call them and tell them the band is over and Im going out their on my own and that Im changing the band name? Should I tell them when I get back and let the chips fall as they may? IM leaning towards telling them I quit the band, deleting the myspace, recording under a different name, and then come back to Austin and see what happens. In the meantime, Ill play with Bexar County Bastards, and assemble a new line up on the side.
I find myself lacking the balls to tell them though. I feel disloyal. I know this is business, but they're still my friends.
So, I told the engineer/producer to find some session players. He's going to lay down bass and keys and he found a drummer.
Now the kicker, I dont feel bad about using session players. I wrote the music, lyrics, and did all the arrangement. Also, the bass player is the weakest link. He's got great feeling, but not the chops, and he doesnt contribute to the writing because he doesnt write our style of music. My drummer is good, but he's also a flake. And even the drummer agrees we need a better bass player but since they're best friends, he doesnt have the heart too tell him either.
Why I do feel bad: Because they're my friends. I dont want to hurt their feelings, but at the same Id be foolish to pass on this opportunity. And deep down I think this record will sound better because they're not playing on it. And thats a terrible thing to say.
Now a little back story: The reason we even got this gig is because Ed D hooked us up with a gig at NAMM. They couldnt afford to pay for that trip either. So I payed for all their plane tickets, and their room. Around $2000 for all of us. They never paid me back.
I just talked to the bass player and asked him again if he could make it out, and he said no. I didnt have the heart to tell him I was planning on going out without them. Im trying to avoid tellng them because its obviously going to suck. And Im wondering what they'll do when I do tell them. Will they quit? Will they be pissed off for awhile and then continue to play live with me? My goal is to make this album, shop it, and see what happens. But if it gets picked up, will I have to find new band members? Most likely.
Part of me just wants to take my music and split. As if this is an excuse to finally get rid of them and start moving forward with better musicians and connections. Ive already got a friend who will play bass (and do a better job of it, and he can sing backup!).
So Im selling out my bandmates and going for it. In the meantime, Im also pushing The Bexar County Bastards hard. We've got some great gigs lined up and we've already started booking a west coast tour in february with a band from Norway called The Dirty Callahans.
Thing is, Im unsure how to tell BTD Im going out there. Should I just call them and tell them the band is over and Im going out their on my own and that Im changing the band name? Should I tell them when I get back and let the chips fall as they may? IM leaning towards telling them I quit the band, deleting the myspace, recording under a different name, and then come back to Austin and see what happens. In the meantime, Ill play with Bexar County Bastards, and assemble a new line up on the side.
I find myself lacking the balls to tell them though. I feel disloyal. I know this is business, but they're still my friends.