All of this yep.
Guitar players are awful at deciphering what a bass guitar is doing in a recording vs an electric guitar. Add that with everyone trying to judge on an iPhone… here we are. I mean for most amp references at this point I can pull up a video from draven, on my iPhone can’t tell really what’s going on, then take it to my car stereo and I can tell EXACTLY how the amp is going to sound for me. You just don’t get an accurate frequency representation out of a phone, and saying otherwise is bull shit. Because it literally has a frequency range that it cuts off on the low end and the high end. I mean guys on YouTube literally use plug-ins now that focus on the low end peak of an iPhone so their audience doesn’t bitch lol.
hell it took me forever to figure stuff out. Playing in bands, several pro recordings, etc. you crank up that low end a ton, with a bass player, and a kick drum your band is going to sound like a big fart. Do the right amount in each area, sounds huge, and clear.
I remember Dave otero getting shit a while back by a bunch of people on YouTube about a mix he did, saying it’s so thin and blah blah blah. Then you go out to a car listen to that and it’s so much low end it’s like a constant gut punch lol. Same guys giving him shit are in the nail the mix stuff and other YouTube channels questioning why they can’t get their mixes loud and clear, why does it sound like there’s a blanket over their guitar, or why do they sound so wooly. Swear you just can’t win.