Doesn't bug me, tbh. Never been bothered by things like "what's up guys" or "dude or brah." Makes comments to me funny sometimes and has me picturing weird things in my head at moments. Now if someone irl said "hey man," they need an eye exam. The one thing that ever bugged the ever living out of me was when my kids were young often cashiers or people in grocery lines thought I was their babysitter because they're clones of my husband. Sometimes I felt like being that crazy bitch in line and screaming obscenities after a couple of years of it happening. Thank God youtube wasn't a thing back then.