Beyond Black":mvumg41y said:
That moment when you postpone lumbar surgery to buy gear.........TOTALLY AWESOME!!!!!!!
NO ONE bleeds for tone more than I do!!!
Actually... I postponed the surgery and THEN brought the gear home. The surgery deal has been something I've been dealing with for the past year, and specifically since August. My neuro seemed to think that I needed it to fix what ails me. But I kept getting "signs" all along the process. Every single event along the timeline was like an episode of The Twilight Zone. The straw that broke the camel's back two weeks ago was when I called the neuro's office bugging them again for the paperwork that I needed to fill-out. I'd been bugging them about it for three weeks and it never showed. The nurse said she'd sent it twice before. So finally I get a clue and call them up and ask "can you confirm my address?" She proceeds to give me the address of my ex-wife, whom I haven't been with for TEN years (and who doesn't have my last name anymore and has remarried). Plus, she only lived at this place for five months this year.
I have a friend who served on the board of directors at this particular hospital/healthcare provider and I'd been keeping him posted about the endless parade of bizarre events leading up to this surgery. So after this last thing, I emailed him and said "maybe someone up there is trying to tell me something". His response was "maybe they are!". I was just joking, but after that.... I started thinking and it became clear to me that I wasn't supposed to have this freakin fusion! I'd come up against brick wall after brick wall. I called my wife about maybe seeking a second opinion and she kind of broke-down and cried and said that she'd been worried about this surgery. She's a pretty cool cucumber normally and it surprised me when she got emotional. So we put on the skids right there and I called the office back to postpone/cancel the surgery. The gal who answered said "we've got your paperwork ready here if you want to come get it". I responded with "ummm.... yeah... about that". I ended-up going to see my primary care doc to have him refer me to a respected local ortho for a second opinion and he totally agreed with my thoughts on it and called me neuro a "douchebag". LOL! He thinks I may have piriformis and not something worthy of a fusion.
Anyways... sorry for the long-story. Just wanted it known that I've been suffering sciatica since my first back surgery almost five years ago (a microdiscectomy) and this process has been long and painful. I've had seven epidurals, physical therapy, and all kinds of other crap. So there's no way I'd choose gear over my health. But in this case... I feel like I dodged a major bullet here and why not celebrate by going into debt for more nice gear???