Sorry Mark, but I'm one that doesn't care for all that gain you play with. I think you're a great player, but all that pick & string noise is way too distracting for me. Plus that damn gate that's always exploding open and crashing shut just makes it worse for me. In your favor though, me being a pro foh & monitor guy and backline tech for many years doesn't help me though, as I have pretty damaged my hearing by not only listening equally to what's right, but also what's wrong. Crackles, pops, fizzes, farts, it all jumps out at me to the point of being distracting sometimes.
Judging by your guidelines, it seems to me you're looking for a passive pickup that's just like an active, and there just isn't many that can do that. You'd have a much better love for passive pickups if you just change a few amp controls when you switch to your passive equipped guitar.