I have yet to read through this entire thread, but as to the OPs question...
I'm getting there. I've recently picked up another amp that I believe will be the money in BOTH ways I wanted it to be - one its own, and matched and paired with my 20thA. I think I've found it - sonic perfection to 'my ears'. My 'rig' consists of a minimal amount of effects - TimeFactor, PitchFactor, OCD, BB Pre, Clyde Deluxe, Big Muff Pi /TW, CAL Mk.4:23Pro, Lehle S-Go-S... One signal, two amps, simultaneous. F*ckin'
MONEY!!
For recording? Axe-II incoming, thing's the best for recording IMHO... And I also use it for my 'project mayhem' set up, which is, I use it for effects only on my Mak4 + Fryette 2/90/2. I call it 'project mayhem' as it's unnervingly loud, and absolutely oblierates everything else in sight. It's not 'my signature tone', but it is pure, no bullshit, in-yer-melted-face power.
So ya, I'm there... My 'siggy sound' is nearing completion. My loud rig is, well, bloody loud. And as for recording, sorry, it's straight up Axe-II with SD2.0 drums.
Peace
Mojo