Women who like musicians

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Floyd Eye said:
Nothing wrong with that bro. If something happened between me and my wife I promise you I wouldn't ever get another permanent woman. Fucking hookers are cheaper and they go away when you are done with them. So like " I paid for a full hour but only used 3 minutes, so you wanna go wash my dishes and vaccuum now whore?" :ROFLMAO:
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same, not looking for another relationship, looking to get to where I can stop working and spending more time enjoying life doing things I enjoy, music, sailing and / or traveling to Asia; I'll see what happens when I get there
 
Floyd Eye said:
23rd year for me now too.

Here's something. My first wife was instrumental in my abandonment of being in working bar bands. I spent a solid 8 years in my 20s barely touching a bass guitar let alone being in a band. The first birthday I had after moving in with my current wife, 3 months earlier, I came home from work and there was a Carvin RL1000 full stack sitting in my living room. She said, " Go find a band".
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Congrats brother. So we both been married 23 years and we both got a step daughter. Interesting.

I would've dumped any woman on her head who dared to interfere with my gigging. I've had it out a few times with the ol' lady when she thought I was getting too many fun and games. She finally realized that a Twin reverb is like a ball and chain once the gigs over so it's not like it was party time but damned if I didn't make it a good time while I worked. I've made a half dozen moves cross country with my family to pursue musical interests. Florida 3x, Nashville once, Texas twice. She'd go to Alaska or Hawaii if I pressed the issue. She loves musical adventure in new places like I do. My kids hate relocating, lol. The problem is I kinda got established down here with the best band I've ever had so I'm averse to moving away right now since I can make a few bucks here and there doing it.
 
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VonBonfire said:
Congrats brother. So we both been married 23 years and we both got a step daughter. Interesting.

I would've dumped any woman on her head who dared to interfere with my gigging. I've had it out a few times with the ol' lady when she thought I was getting too many fun and games. She finally realized that a Twin reverb is like a ball and chain once the gigs over so it's not like it was party time but damned if I didn't make it a good time while I worked. I've made a half dozen moves cross country with my family to pursue musical interests. Florida 3x, Nashville once, Texas twice. She'd go to Alaska or Hawaii if I pressed the issue. She loves musical adventure in new places like I do. My kids hate relocating, lol. The problem is I kinda got established down here with the best band I've ever had so I'm averse to moving away right now since I can make a few bucks here and there doing it.
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As I alluded to in another thread I was madly in love with my first wife. And still to this day, back then, she was the hottest bitch I've ever seen. Turns out she was a whore, but that's another story. lol
 
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Floyd Eye said:
As I alluded to in another thread I was madly in love with my first wife. And still to this day, back then, she was the hottest bitch I've ever seen. Turns out she was a whore, but that's another story. lol
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When I look back at all the women I either crushed on or turned down as a young guy I can't say I have any regrets in not pursuing them further or over being flatly rejected by them. Most of them are divorced, drunks, or just live bland, boring non musician lives in the same armpit I bailed out on. Not a life that I would want. Most women are weak primadonnas who look for shiny objects like some kinda rodent. My wife was raised country strong so we have lived in a tent and a really gross single wide and then a cabin without a ridge cap. It still ain't fully insulated and we're still together. My brother married her sister.
 
VonBonfire said:
When I look back at all the women I either crushed on or turned down as a young guy I can't say I have any regrets in not pursuing them further or over being flatly rejected by them. Most of them are divorced, drunks, or just live bland, boring non musician lives in the same armpit I bailed out on. Not a life that I would want. Most women are weak primadonnas who look for shiny objects like some kinda rodent. My wife was raised country strong so we have lived in a tent and a really gross single wide and then a cabin without a ridge cap. It still ain't fully insulated and we're still together. My brother married her sister.
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Since moving back to my hometown, an uncomfortable percentage of my wife’s friends are exes of mine lol. It’s bound to happen in a small town I suppose
 
Justin Bailey said:
Since moving back to my hometown, an uncomfortable percentage of my wife’s friends are exes of mine lol. It’s bound to happen in a small town I suppose
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If you offered me a billion dollars to move back to my hometown under the condition that it was where I live the rest of my life I could answer that question with a hard "no" as soon as it was asked. At least you are from someplace pleasant with opportunities. I am not, unfortunately. I get annoyed that my wife has FB and some of the losers from the past are able to track my movements. I don't even want to get started, it just brings up bitter memories.
 
I fucked a lot of bitches here and in LA from the time I was 11 to about 18. Never gave a single one of them a second thought. Not even the really smoking hot ones. I had two serious relationships in my life. Both of my wives. One lasted 13 years and this one is 23 years old now.
 
Floyd Eye said:
I fucked a lot of bitches here and in LA from the time I was 11 to about 18. Never gave a single one of them a second thought. Not even the really smoking hot ones. I had two serious relationships in my life. Both of my wives. One lasted 13 years and this one is 23 years old now.
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I never felt comfortable sleeping around like that with total strangers. I know that makes me an outlier when we are talking about modern playboy men but I just don't get close to people easily. I can't say I regret not doing so. I'm not anyone's trophy and I don't feel conquests are anything to brag about. You always say you are misanthropic. I was too, real bad actually, for a long time. I just see an easy woman as a moron and a degenerate and I sure ain't sleeping with morons and degenerates.
 
VonBonfire said:
I never felt comfortable sleeping around like that with total strangers. I know that makes me an outlier when we are talking about modern playboy men but I just don't get close to people easily. I can't say I regret not doing so. I'm not anyone's trophy and I don't feel conquests are anything to brag about. You always say you are misanthropic. I was too, real bad actually, for a long time. I just see an easy woman as a moron and a degenerate and I sure ain't sleeping with morons and degenerates.
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I never got close to them bro. Just banged them.
 
acceptance said:
What about punani? ?
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yeh, just nothing serious; which makes it tougher out there; so does getting older; had to move to women in their 30s, women in their 20s aren't as easy now. I was in my early 50s when divorced, and seeing women in their 20s; the one I mentioned had to leave for work after she got her master's degree was 26, I was 52; long distance didn't last more than a few months.

that said, I'm in a vacation spot, lots of "girls nights out"
 
The main point of my thread here is that the quality of women has drastically declined, and I don’t like the type of woman likes the things I’m good at, like music. Unless somehow I got into church/worship music and met a good girl there. That’s probably the only way to find what I’m looking for
 
Floyd Eye said:
23rd year for me now too.

Here's something. My first wife was instrumental in my abandonment of being in working bar bands. I spent a solid 8 years in my 20s barely touching a bass guitar let alone being in a band. The first birthday I had after moving in with my current wife, 3 months earlier, I came home from work and there was a Carvin RL1000 full stack sitting in my living room. She said, " Go find a band".
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My wife is like that. After we got together, she told me "Baby, you need drums and guitars and stuff."

Ain't nothin' better than a good woman who respects what matters to you.
 
WhiteShadow said:
The main point of my thread here is that the quality of women has drastically declined, and I don’t like the type of woman likes the things I’m good at, like music. Unless somehow I got into church/worship music and met a good girl there. That’s probably the only way to find what I’m looking for
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it's called hoeflation = a man has to work 20x harder than his grandfather did to get a woman who is 20x worse than his grandmother
 
We all know there is an ‘operative time’ to learn a foreign language. If a kid grows up in a household where mom and dad speak different languages, that kid is literally fluent in both languages having never ‘studied’ either language the way we try to teach it in school.

I also strongly believe that there is an ‘operative time’ to have those big memorable emotionally overwhelming (in a good way, we hope) romantic relationships - where you both are totally into each other and everything clicks and it feels like walking around on a constant drip of opium and cocaine. The problem is, we keep chasing that ‘opium and cocaine drip’ feeling long after the biological ‘operative time’ for that experience has come and gone.

Wifey and I will celebrate our 30th anniversary this year. Met when I was steeped in the music scene playing in popular bands that got booked into the big local clubs and got first pick to open for the national acts that came through. Big fish, little pond, thought it would lead somewhere. Wifey and her Runnin crew were all way into that scene. Opium and cocaine.

When I finally had to hang that up and go back to grad school, the depression hit me like a ton of cinder blocks. Our lives have changed dramatically since then. We are not the same people and we are not the same couple. Lots of growing pains along the way. I’d be devastated if she was gone - not sure what I would do from one day to the next - but at this age and stage of my life, I would not dream of trying to recreate a relationship experience that is by very definition both brief and limited. If I ever did date again, I would have to start from the position that this experience is necessarily going to feel very, very different than the first time around this track.
 
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