I've been there and still am really. It's now been 20 years since my last serious gig (probably 300 local gigs in the decade after and a handful of sessions, but those are even a decade in the past now). I don't know that I have the energy or desire to go back out and play gigs now, especially just a local dive for a handful of people.
OTOH, I still want to write, create, and record, but there's a wall toward me getting everything set up for recording. I don't know what it is either as I'm fairly technically competent but just never get around to it. Meanwhile, the desire to play ebbs and flows, but I've definitely lost a lot of my chops in the meantime, and even what I do have tends to get me to hand-cramp area after an hour or two of playing.
Actually, I signed up for this place about the time I was realizing everything was in the rear view mirror, hoping for inspiration. Sadly, while I love chatting, I don't know that it's really helped me rekindle the effort into playing. At the same time, it also hasn't led me down the path of gear swapping!