
guitarmike
Well-known member
The band:
Lead singer - never been in a band before
Drummer and other guitar player - has not gigged in 10+ years (the guitar player only gigged a few times).
Bass player and myself - 25yrs in active bands
The bass player in my current band has missed half of the practices since I joined 3 months ago. All were legitimate reasons. As you can imagine this is has pretty much halted progress and pissed off the rest of the band. I have been in bands that had 3 full sets by now, we have a little over 25 songs down. The band wants to change out the bass player (I do not disagree in principle). At the last practice the tension was thick and it is obvious that this configuration will not last.
After the bass player left practice I suggested to the rest of the band that staying the course and not changing out band members may be the lessor of two evils as long as he does not miss anymore practices. It also makes sense to try out some other bass players and see what is out there.
It is amazing that this crap is part and parcel to being in a band at any age and any style of music. Maybe I am getting old but I am getting tired of the whole band thing.
There is a distinct formula to being in a successful cover band:
1. Good vocals with 3 part harmony.
2. Play hits, not B sides.
3. Avoid extremes. Stay away from Bobby Sherman and death metal.
4. Don't play the same set list every other band plays.
5. Practice until you are tight.
6. Be available to play when asked (up to the # of gigs per month the band wants to play).
7. Always be professional and polite.
8. Do not play in a band to make extra $$$, pizza delivery is far more profitable.
As obvious as this someone in the band always seems to act like a rock star and screw it up. If your band is not dysfunctional, enjoy it while it lasts because it won't last forever. /End rant
Lead singer - never been in a band before
Drummer and other guitar player - has not gigged in 10+ years (the guitar player only gigged a few times).
Bass player and myself - 25yrs in active bands
The bass player in my current band has missed half of the practices since I joined 3 months ago. All were legitimate reasons. As you can imagine this is has pretty much halted progress and pissed off the rest of the band. I have been in bands that had 3 full sets by now, we have a little over 25 songs down. The band wants to change out the bass player (I do not disagree in principle). At the last practice the tension was thick and it is obvious that this configuration will not last.
After the bass player left practice I suggested to the rest of the band that staying the course and not changing out band members may be the lessor of two evils as long as he does not miss anymore practices. It also makes sense to try out some other bass players and see what is out there.
It is amazing that this crap is part and parcel to being in a band at any age and any style of music. Maybe I am getting old but I am getting tired of the whole band thing.
There is a distinct formula to being in a successful cover band:
1. Good vocals with 3 part harmony.
2. Play hits, not B sides.
3. Avoid extremes. Stay away from Bobby Sherman and death metal.
4. Don't play the same set list every other band plays.
5. Practice until you are tight.
6. Be available to play when asked (up to the # of gigs per month the band wants to play).
7. Always be professional and polite.
8. Do not play in a band to make extra $$$, pizza delivery is far more profitable.
As obvious as this someone in the band always seems to act like a rock star and screw it up. If your band is not dysfunctional, enjoy it while it lasts because it won't last forever. /End rant