
Metlupass2
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Now THIS is patently absurd. If you want anything. Literally ANYTHING to fail miserably and be a complete joke and farce, make it a total democracy.Be open to any songs and keep it a democracy
No one person calling all the shots. Everyone should have an equal voice
Didn't sway we were playing 80s jams. I want to be fully original eventually, but you got to start jamming on something firstRunning barefoot through a big ass pit of fiery burning coals sounds like more fun to me than going through everything that goes with being in a band, especially a cover band playing 80s jams but I wish you luck dude
Best bet, is go to some local gigs, they're usually some musicians in the crowd and or disgruntled band members looking for a way out.
I got yanked out of a band that was doing RATM, , Korn, FFDP and other stuff like that. Occasionally, they would do a simple Ozzy, Pantera or Metallica song.
They got jealous, when I decided to do a 5 minute Shred Fest on our break and they were stunned at the crowds reaction to it.
The band didn't like it, but three guys in the crowd loved the improvised Malmsteen, Satriani, Bratta type solo spot and asked me to try out for their band.
They asked me to join after the first practice .
I finally got into a band that is at my level and enjoy the covers / originals that's being played.
Best bet, is go to some local gigs, they're usually some musicians in the crowd and or disgruntled band members looking for a way out.
I got yanked out of band that was doing RATM, , Korn, FFDP and other stuff like that. Occasionally, they would do a simple Ozzy, Pantera or Metallica song.
They got jealous, when I decided to do a 5 minute Shred Fest on our break and they were stunned at the crowds reaction to it.
They band didn't like it, but three guys in the crowd loved the improvised Malmsteen, Satriani, Bratta type solo spot and asked me to try out for their band.
They asked me to join after the first practice .
I finally got into a band that is at my level and enjoy the covers / originals that's being played.
Worked for me, it got me out of that Nu Metal - Lalapaloser band.The easiest way is to join an existing band, play your ass off and impress people, and network. If you’re not going that route, network at local shows of bands playing styles in the same wheelhouse of what you’re interested in. Introduce yourself and chat a bit, before parting ways casually ask if they know anyone into the music your are that are looking for a project. If you do the FB thing, usually there are musician groups or even groups for specific genres for the larger cities / regions nearby you, join them and post what you’re looking for. Toss in a sample of your playing and you’ll probably get a decent amount of replies too. I’d drop the “serious” bit because people will just ignore that and reply regardless.
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This is how I worded my current ad:
"Guitarist. 32 years old.
Seeking band to join, or players to form band with. Original/covers
Classic Hard rock/heavy metal (Influences: Van Halen/GN'R/Motley Crue/Def Leppard/RATT etc...)
Pro gear/mindset. Looking for same
Check out my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcPNTI2D1WaVKvsrETzESxQ
Serious replies ONLY!"
Probably the only boomer thing about me is my music tastes, except 80s metal is more gen x tbh. Otherwise I'm staunchly anti-boomerBoomer alert.
Thank you!With chops like that , you are looking for a unicorn. You want guys with chops in their own right but also the right attitude, maturity, and look. It's gonna be tough. I've looked at getting into bands jn the past and found the same thing. Lots of flakes and leads that go nowhere. It can be extremely discouraging. Just keep plugging away. Maybe you could look at local music stores where teachers leave their business cards..you might find a bass and drum teacher offering services who is serious and who you know will have a certain level of musicianship? Worth a shot.
I’m guessing while he’s doing that you’re looking for other players at Chuck E Cheese?If you arent a boomer, i suggest you go ahead and channel the boomer and use the newspaper, because starting an evh cover band..that is your crowd and bandmates. Maybe put a note in a bottle and throw it out to sea. Try to force some reading glasses in there too. Also, go to the music stores and look for old guys with hawaiian shirts. They are the coolest cats from that time.
I'll tell you what--That's the Gods Honest Truth . You don't have to be great or a front man but that is something you can offer a band .My first piece of advice would be, learn to sing. One less thing you need up front.