Divorced, I have my gear. Still date occasionally; no interest in marriage again; but not liking the women I'm finding out there. loud, obnoxious, annoying, masculine, entitled,...looking for a wallet / bailout / retirement plan...basically everything I don't want in a woman...
my son starts college next fall, I hope to retire soon after he's ensconced and set, then take an extended trip to a few places in Asia, some I've been to, some not long enough or in other areas. Southern Japan (Kyushu Island) is at the top of the list, Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand...may have to pass on mainland China this time.
When I return, I'll decide future plan...live in Asia part of the year, or get a sailboat and sail/liveaboard in the Caribbean.