My first interwebz meltdown was on hcaf. my wife punched some fuckin 20 y.o. punk in the mouth for cussing her. I posted it up because it was a really funny story and I got fuckin dog piled...quick. It was nasty. I said some nasty shit in return, then I deleted my insults because I felt bad...then they started in on me for deleting posts...I invited a forumite to meet up somewhere and where we could discuss this like true gentlemen and then a really cool mod deleted it and counseled me on a few things. In a good way. those were the days...