nope, not at all. the volume you play at will only speed up a tube's wear time. but as long as the amplifier is on - your tubes are counting down their days.
as far as matched goes - when it comes down to it - matching only helps to keep the lifespan close because the bias will be simillar to each tube.
since your amplifier is fixed bias, its probably biased cold. i have yet to find a company that fix-bias' their amplifiers hot - that wouldnt make any sense.
but a hot bias will cause tubes to wear quicker, as if you were playing at higher volumes on a cold-biased power tube. 6 one way, half a dozen of another. kinda like comparing front wheel drive to rear wheel drive - you see both at the drag strips and both will get you down the road pretty quick.
good luck on the tubes. i prefer
http://www.thetubestore.com for my matched quads of power tubes. i will only order pre-amp tubes from
http://www.dougstubes.com because he is the only person that does burn-ins on all of his preamp tubes to check for microphonic or deffective tubes out of the box. this means high gain 12ax7/ecc83 tubes have less of a chance breaking down in the future.
rock on bro.