
japetus
Well-known member
If you are scared you are scared.
That's not a bad idea with the phone call. I would agree it is easier to read people over the phone than through messaging.I always get them on the phone and within minutes can tell if they're full of shit or not.
Ive done hundreds of face to face transactions sometimes 100+ miles from home in neighboring States by myself and never had a problem.
And for the most part met some cool gearheads.
To me only an insecure person would carry a firearm to a gear deal but i get why they would
I like the transaction receipt for larger items. I will have to keep that in mind.I do the deals at my practice space. The halls and doors are video monitored, you can't get in or out without keys and a fob, and it allows someone to crank the gear and demo it at volume.
I've never had a single bad Craigslist transaction where someone tried to pull a fast one. I only do cash, Venmo, and Zelle/Quick Pay. I actually prefer the electronic payments as I really don't like carrying large wads of cash around like some drug dealer.
I've done deals at GC where I've been the buyer, but it always feels a little weird to use a store (and its gear) for a private party transaction... even if it is Guitar Center.
For non-gear deals (like when I sold my last car on CL), I use the police station. Haven't tried to sell anything during COVID, but not much would be different except folks wear masks.
For large deals (anything >$1000) I have drafted an invoice/receipt for both of us to sign and keep for our records. I've never had issues with the other person signing it... it's all business, and can protect either of our asses if the other person decides to pull a fast one. If someone weren't okay with signing something like that, I'd probably say the deal is off.
I have also never carried to a transaction. I plan ahead and pick my locations wisely. While i do have the option, I have significantly more skills with my hands than a gun so not sure it would really give me an advantage. But, bringing it up is always a nice reminder to be cautious and stay alert.I‘ve done countless in person deals. Never packed and never felt the need to and never had an issue. I swear, there‘s gonna come a day when people will be too afraid to leave their home or even look another person in the eye.
I‘ve done countless in person deals. Never packed and never felt the need to and never had an issue. I swear, there‘s gonna come a day when people will be too afraid to leave their home or even look another person in the eye.
If they won't give me the courtesy of a phone call i don't deal with them at all. And thats a red flag in my book.It sounds like venmo and paypal gift seem ok so far. I also would prefer to do electronic to avoid large amounts of cash on hand.
That's not a bad idea with the phone call. I would agree it is easier to read people over the phone than through messaging.
I like the transaction receipt for larger items. I will have to keep that in mind.
I have also never carried to a transaction. I plan ahead and pick my locations wisely. While i do have the option, I have significantly more skills with my hands than a gun so not sure it would really give me an advantage. But, bringing it up is always a nice reminder to be cautious and stay alert.
True story. I had a pack of condoms and lube my pocket when I went to your house just in case shit went down.
It sounds like venmo and paypal gift seem ok so far. I also would prefer to do electronic to avoid large amounts of cash on hand.
That's not a bad idea with the phone call. I would agree it is easier to read people over the phone than through messaging.
I like the transaction receipt for larger items. I will have to keep that in mind.
I have also never carried to a transaction. I plan ahead and pick my locations wisely. While i do have the option, I have significantly more skills with my hands than a gun so not sure it would really give me an advantage. But, bringing it up is always a nice reminder to be cautious and stay alert.
Yeah....couldn’t agree more. The paranoia runs deep nowadays. I’ve never felt the need to bring a gun to a personal transaction with another gear whore. To each his own. Maybe someday I’ll be murdered by a crazy person posing as a guitarist?I‘ve done countless in person deals. Never packed and never felt the need to and never had an issue. I swear, there‘s gonna come a day when people will be too afraid to leave their home or even look another person in the eye.
That's one way to do it. When I was doing time in the Big House I learned how to fashion a shank out of a toothbrush. When I do in-person gear deals, I keep one of these lethally modified toothbrushes in my front shirt pocket. If the buyer dares to give me any shit, I grab the toothbrush by the bristles and stab him in the neck.Sounds like a lot of rig talkers show up to a deal packing heat. Personally, I go with a shank. If the other guy has a gun I just use my shank to deflect the bullets with my cat like reflexes back at them and they are hit with their own bullet.
That's one way to do it. When I was doing time in the Big House I learned how to fashion a shank out of a toothbrush. When I do in-person gear deals, I keep one of these lethally modified toothbrushes in my front shirt pocket. If the buyer dares to give me any shit, I grab the toothbrush by the bristles and stab him in the neck.
That's one way to do it. When I was doing time in the Big House I learned how to fashion a shank out of a toothbrush. When I do in-person gear deals, I keep one of these lethally modified toothbrushes in my front shirt pocket. If the buyer dares to give me any shit, I grab the toothbrush by the bristles and stab him in the neck.
Yeah, that’s cool man. It’s especially cool when you ram the toothbrush fashioned shank deep in their neck, and you feel it sever the carotid artery. But you have to get out of the radius of death because the arterial spray shoots far. You don’t want to get drenched in blood, know what I mean? From one shank master to another?
Yeah....couldn’t agree more. The paranoia runs deep nowadays. I’ve never felt the need to bring a gun to a personal transaction with another gear whore. To each his own. Maybe someday I’ll be murdered by a crazy person posing as a guitarist?
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I have a friend in Corrections they did away with anything w/a handle over 20 years ago that includes and kind of metal can from the canteen.
You can always use the old thumbs thru the eyeballs routine though.
Most Corrections did away with street clothes, free weights & tobacco as well.
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I have a friend in Corrections they did away with anything w/a handle over 20 years ago that includes and kind of metal can from the canteen.
You can always use the old thumbs thru the eyeballs routine though.
Most Corrections did away with street clothes, free weights & tobacco as well.
Small amounts of drugs brought in by the staff yes, but not much else its a very small & tightly controlled universe.yeah, but the black market in the big house thrives. You can get what ever you want in there!
Yeah, because no one jas been killed or robbed in a public place right. It insurance. I have insurance on my car, not because I’m afraid of damage.I can't believe how many of you guys are scared enough to say "good thing I can concealed carry".
If you are that uncomfortable, just meet in a public place. The recommendation of the internet safe exchange place is great. Unless you live in a swamp or on a mountain, chances are there is one not too far from you.