F
FrankieVA
New member
That's dead on! I love Don Henley's music in the Eagles and I have all of his solo records but I think being in a band with him = one incredibly long day.
This is one of the aspects I liked about being a drummer... Per my experience, it's the position of least resistance within a band. It's also the best seat in the house when it comes to drama queen singers and guitar players...FrankieVA":jzf0r27x said:I think we want to believe that all bands are boys and buds and they like each other's company. We romanticize it that way and I'm guilty of it as well. A lot of these bands are basically a business entity. It's no different from your job. We all have co-workers we work with and we work well with them but we really don't like them and would rather not spend time with them. I learned to separate the music I love and the actual people long ago. I admire Henley for his artistry and I love his songs but I probably would not want to be friends with him.
TrueTone500":3gevbppv said:I do think it would be difficult to ask a close friend to leave a band, merely because they don't want to sing a particular song... It would be for me anyway.
I'm just such a huge fan of Take It To The Limit. They replaced Randy with Timothy, yet I've never heard Timothy sing TITTL? Unless I'm mistaken, Bernie Leadon is back in the band.sytharnia1560":bptgco2t said:TrueTone500":bptgco2t said:I do think it would be difficult to ask a close friend to leave a band, merely because they don't want to sing a particular song... It would be for me anyway.
don't forget the fact they had been on the road for yrs by then and were basically running on ego's, drugs and alcohol so being in each others space constantly will erode what ever friendship was there to start with.
For me randy's vocals were always a little bit to country so I prefer timothy for the poppy/soft quality he brings .... yes i'm a sucker for a good soft ballad![]()
All I know is I am going to see them in 8 days for the first time since 96 so can't wait......not to fussed whos in the band, just wanna here all those great songs![]()
TrueTone500":zd6tfqzw said:I'm just such a huge fan of Take It To The Limit. They replaced Randy with Timothy, yet I've never heard Timothy sing TITTL? Unless I'm mistaken, Bernie Leadon is back in the band.sytharnia1560":zd6tfqzw said:TrueTone500":zd6tfqzw said:I do think it would be difficult to ask a close friend to leave a band, merely because they don't want to sing a particular song... It would be for me anyway.
don't forget the fact they had been on the road for yrs by then and were basically running on ego's, drugs and alcohol so being in each others space constantly will erode what ever friendship was there to start with.
For me randy's vocals were always a little bit to country so I prefer timothy for the poppy/soft quality he brings .... yes i'm a sucker for a good soft ballad![]()
All I know is I am going to see them in 8 days for the first time since 96 so can't wait......not to fussed whos in the band, just wanna here all those great songs![]()
petethorn":2p3btwwh said:I have played guitar in Don Henley's solo band since 2009.
I'd like to just say that he's always been very nice to me, he has a good sense of humor, and I really enjoy playing with him. Playing those songs is epic, of course. And yes he is a perfectionist, and always expects you to deliver and do your best, which I really enjoy because I finish every gig with a sense of satisfaction and pride. But he also goes above and beyond sometimes to just show appreciation- a recent example, we did a private gig last month in Dallas, where Don lives. And although we already had a dinner meal provided, Don went out of his way and got his local BBQ place to bring food for the whole band and crew (which was delicious).
I sent him an email after he inducted Randy Newman into the R&R hall of fame, I just wanted to tell him how much I enjoyed that segment of the show and mentioned that it made me want to learn about and listen to more Randy Newman music. He promptly sent me back an email listing a bunch of his favorite tracks, where to start listening, etc. I really appreciated that.
FWIW. Carry on!
It behoves any employer to treat (current and potential future) employees in a dignified manner, if the employer hopes to achieve the best possible results.petethorn":3pehdlf6 said:I have played guitar in Don Henley's solo band since 2009.
I'd like to just say that he's always been very nice to me, he has a good sense of humor, and I really enjoy playing with him. Playing those songs is epic, of course. And yes he is a perfectionist, and always expects you to deliver and do your best, which I really enjoy because I finish every gig with a sense of satisfaction and pride. But he also goes above and beyond sometimes to just show appreciation- a recent example, we did a private gig last month in Dallas, where Don lives. And although we already had a dinner meal provided, Don went out of his way and got his local BBQ place to bring food for the whole band and crew (which was delicious).
I sent him an email after he inducted Randy Newman into the R&R hall of fame, I just wanted to tell him how much I enjoyed that segment of the show and mentioned that it made me want to learn about and listen to more Randy Newman music. He promptly sent me back an email listing a bunch of his favorite tracks, where to start listening, etc. I really appreciated that.
FWIW. Carry on!
...I think I'm going to be sick.FrankieVA":m6a9tr2p said:...I'm certainly open to having my opinion changed. Thanks Pete!
You know him personally? haha I'm just saying my opinion of him has been formed only by reading what others think about him. That's really not fair. It's good to hear another side.TrueTone500":23n9tieb said:...I think I'm going to be sick.FrankieVA":23n9tieb said:...I'm certainly open to having my opinion changed. Thanks Pete!
I've never met Don Henley. I had a ticket to see them on the Hotel California tour, but a nasty hangover prevented me from attending. I made it to the next show, which was the Frampton Comes Alive tour, but passed-out through most of the show. I drank a bottle of MD 20/20 before the show, and that as they say was that. I came-to for a few Kansas numbers... I puked again, then passed-out for most of Frampton's set.FrankieVA":1fhx3wjj said:You know him personally? haha I'm just saying my opinion of him has been formed only by reading what others think about him. That's really not fair. It's good to hear another side.TrueTone500":1fhx3wjj said:...I think I'm going to be sick.FrankieVA":1fhx3wjj said:...I'm certainly open to having my opinion changed. Thanks Pete!