I haven't played in a band for about a decade. Really, I haven't played in a serious band in nearly 20 years. That was when my last band attempting to "make it" folded and I had my first kid. (I was already working full time as an engineer, so even that attempt was half-hearted - no starving musician here!) When I brought everything home from studio and rehearsal space, my wife had a full Marshall backline along an entire livingroom wall in our small 2 bedroom apartment when we brought our first kid home. I did a major gear purge at the time, planning to keep around a few key pieces and just enjoy playing by myself. In my early 30's, I figured I was retired from it.....and in a lot of ways, I really was.
The wife wanted to start attending church at the time, and I only stipulated that it had to be somewhere that did contemporary music so I could work my way into playing there. So, I did play Sundays for over a decade a couple of places. I found out I was far from the only old metalheard playing pop-rock tunes on Sundays, and as a bonus my wife is a great vocalist, so we actually played together regularly for that entire time, something I never thought would happen.
I actually met several guys and started another band, of "older" burned out metalheads writing original music and playing occasionally. It was a lot of of fun and we did that for several years. Unfortunately, I got relocated across country away from those guys, and then again a few years later. I managed to find the church thing each place, thought that's fallen by the side now. I haven't had any luck finding anyone to play with regularly for anything else.
Anyhow, over that time I've picked up pieces here and there for the fun of it. Unfortunately, I seem to find more inspiration buying gear than to actually play without any project to work on. I need to figure out a way around that, as my skills are seriously deteriorated now!
EDIT: How do I pay for gear? I've worked as an engineer since the early 90's. I have a good salary and can manage a hobby or two for the fun of it without too much issue. Actually, I semi-retired from that into academia a few years back, and I actually teach electronics to aspired audio engineering students as part of my duties now, which is a lot of fun.