Floyd in ‘94. My first concert, I was 11. Totally changed my life and I started playing guitar the following Christmas as a result.
Dream Theater- Live Scenes From NY. I was at the venue from 8AM until after midnight for that show. I was at the previous Roseland show that year and a bunch of us recognized each other and a real family vibe was present that day. I had my JEM with me as I came in via train and my father, who worked in the city, was coming to pick it up. I passed it around for anyone who wanted to play it for a good hour or two, just a super friendly vibe. The show was long and emotional, it was a celebration of how on-fire the band was at the time and the performance was perfect.
STP’s reunion tour in 2008. I got shitfaced in the parking lot at Great Woods in Mansfield and spent most of the show crying like a bitch. Scott was wasted the previous night in Jersey and we weren’t sure what to expect, but once they started, he was the exact version of Scott you’d want to see at a show. The crowd was so into it, I’m not sure I’ve ever heard a louder crowd. Obviously, my drunken state added to my emotions, but it was one of those nights that the crowd turned into one giant feeling, it was perfect weather, I was with my favorite people in the world....perfect night.
Honorable mentions-
G3 in ‘96 in Boston. I was 14, went mainly to see EJ as I wasn’t big into Vai or Satch at the time. Vai opened and blew my fucking face off. Much like the Floyd show, it changed my entire outlook on music and guitar playing.
Queensryche, 4 years ago....it was the 2nd album they did with La Torre. Dokken sucked fucking ass but Ryche came out and for someone who grew up with that band (born in ‘82, my dad and uncle were hardcore fans, that EP was probably what they used to make me stop crying) it was so fucking great to see and hear. I had given up on them until Todd came in. Even now, with Scott MIA, I think The Verdict was solid.
Sevendust 7 years ago- I was broke as a joke, couldn’t afford tickets. Clint is a big inspiration of mine and I at least wanted to shake his hand, say “Thanks” and have him sign my JEM (one of only 3 dudes who I’d want to sign it) so I sat on the hood of my car playing the JEM when Clint came back from a run, told me he’d be back out in a minute, then Lajon came off the bus, saw me and ran right over, that dude is just so full of life. “You’re playing tonight, right?! No? Man, why aren’t you playing tonight with us? You’re at least coming though, right? (No Lajon, I’m broke) Oh BULLSHIT. How many people you want to bring? Tell this man here how many tickets you need, you’re on the list tonight.” I told the TM just myself and my wife, showed up to the venue that night and he was no bullshit, we were on the list.
Rockville 3 years ago- shitload of bands, a lot a don’t even dig, but it was the first show I had seen in about 10 years that I wasn’t bummed out about not being onstage. I spent so many years trying to make it happen, not even huge success, just to be in a touring band that made my living on the road and it really dragged me down. I’d be more bummed out going to shows than I was excited. For some reason, this show was different and they’ve all be a treat since then. Seems my life is changing again in ways I hadn’t planned for and I might be in the position to take another crack at it. Time will tell. I’m up for it, even at 37.
Steve Vai- 1999, Ultra Zone tour. It was the height of my fanboyism and I honestly thought Vai was this superhuman. I met him before the show and his presence totally changed my perspective on celebrities/virtuosos. I realized he was just a human like myself, he just devoted a large amount of time on doing something great. That’s about the time I learned that we’re all capable of amazing things if we put the time into it, which changed my character and goals.