You can crawfish, twist, and grasp at straws all you want trying to explain yourself. You most certainly made an insinuation. Reread your post.
"It's almost par-for-the-course for lefties to shy away from robust FoS environments 'cause whilst many of them believe in FoS, most can't handle free expression of opposing views expressed with passion. I'm not saying that this is 100% what happened in Johnny's case, but if I had to guess, that might be it."
This 100% is you insinuating Johnny is leaving because he couldn't handle free expression of opposing views expressed with a passion. You even restate in the post I'm quoting that this would be your guess. Then you say you have no idea why he left. All the more reason to have kept quiet on the matter.
Reread it from my perspective please bro' - I've bolded the caveats:
"I'm not saying that this is 100% what happened in Johnny's case, but if I had to guess, that might be it."
Almost 100% of reports are submitted by lefties and a righty rarely,
if ever (can't even think of 1 example OTTOMH) leaves 'cause he's "offended" by OTC and what goes on there.
My guess was purely based on numbers and also the fact that he chose to leave rather than just take a break, something I suggested to him.
Regardless of your intention you most certainly painted Johnny in a bad light.
I certainly didn't mean to:
As a mod one experiences floods of the questions, "Why was so-and-so bant?" and, "Why did so-and-so leave?". I simply chose to state what I knew (next to nothing) in order to hopefully prevent said flood... and potential speculation threads.
I grant you 100% that had I been functioning properly, I'd have said nothing. I'll address this later.
FWIMBW, I made sure I balanced any potential misconceptions that I "painted him in a bad light" by finishing the post with the following:
IMHO he's a really-nice guy and I and I'm sure others will miss him. Dude wouldn't harm a flea.
Who knows, perhaps he'll rejoin one day. Let's hope so.
Surely that counts for something? I'd have thought so.
Your speculation just made you look like a jackass.
Agreed.
This whole thing and being accused of being deceitful took away my appetite and kept me up all night. I knew I'd fallen short of the standard I set, if any, but was also taken-aback by said accusation. I'm not deceitful. Ever. I'm also not a politician, but rather, a super-creative (happy to say that) dude who means well but isn't super-smart, has an eye for detail but often misses the obvious (ask anyone who knows me or who's seen me laugh a week after hearing a joke) and gives 100% of himself, leaving nothing on-the-table.
I decided last night that I need to take a break. I've deteriorated throughout the course of the past week as a result of half a dozen factors beyond my control. I'm not surprised (but I am ashamed) of my lack of attention to detail and discipline yesterday but on the plus side I'm 100%-sure it was due to the state I'm in, exacerbated by having lost electrical power for 5 hours and therefore having to rush my duties here as a result.
I'm going to ask Dan to keep an extra eye on things whilst I tap out for a while. I can't guess how long I'll need but I s'pose when I stop forgetting names I've known for decades, receive some sleep and my concentrative powers return for the most part I'll be ready to take things on again. I'll update the home page at the end of the week as I always do but apart from that, I'm tippin' I won't be around much.
I don't want to overstep my bounds so I'll keep it semi-vague. A large part of why Johnny decided to leave has to do with what you and @Floyd Eye are discussing.
See, this is what I'm talking about. I've no idea what we were discussing; I'd have to go back and see. Thank you for the "heads-up" 'though bro'.
I'm just not up to this shit right now and, being a silver-lining guy, I should thank you for "snapping" me out of my hazy (but nervous) state of mind.
Kudos to you my friend. As I've said several times previously, I consider you well-meaning and really-intelligent and I look up to you for these reasons.