Why didn't YOU make it big?

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Got a taste of it. 1 step away. Bad timing we were a hard rock act and grunge just exploded, no longer in fashion/trend. But did almost reach the plateau but only to fall back to earthjust as quick as the ascend.
 
Bob Savage":3dvdwpc5 said:
Lost interest because of where the hard rock scene was headed. Got tired of dealing with flakes. Didn't have a unique vision that I thought could succeed at the time. Thought band managers were blood sucking leeches. Didn't want to end up a starving musician. Realized "making it" had a lot to do with luck too and didn't want to rely on that...

Luck. Sure is true.
Preparation + opportunity = Luck.
Some had preparation but no opportunity.
Some had the nerve to create opportunity, but lacked preparation.
Some had preparation and opportunity, but their musical style sucked or wasn't liked by the opportunity.

My musician friends have had some limited success's professionally.
One buddy plays bass for Survivor. He's been in Survivor much longer than the original bass player.
But, his tenure came a good bit after their big success. :) He stills lot's of fun with it.
Another buddy plays keyboards in Eddie Money's band. My buddy's a cool guy, very talented and really enjoy's the gig.
I was very surprised to find out how much touring Eddie Money does.
Another friend, although I haven't know him for that long, is the singer and guitar player for the Steepwater band.
Cool dude and great guitar player. Cool slide guitar player. Gotta get him to show me some slide work.
I used to be able to play slide decently years ago, but stopped and don't know why.
And an old acquaintance from high school played drums for the Reverend Horton Heat band for about 12 years. He left the band in 2006. I haven't heard from that dude in like 8 years. Reminds me to look him up.

I've jammed with all those guys except for the drummer, and was in a recording band project with the bass player.
We still get together and jam from time to time.
Those guys still play in various bands in the area.
 
BrokenFusion":v8iuwt2s said:
I don't like to talk to other humans.

+1 :lol: :LOL: :lol: :LOL:


TO be a bit serious about the answer I think it is because
1) when I was younger I didn't know what I wanted to play when it comes to originals...so every band I did had no direction
2) now that I am older I don't have the self belief to "go for it" so I procrastinate......every one who hears what I am writing says it frikken awesome stuff but that doesn't seem to help motivate me to do anything :doh:
 
I'm a homebody. Family guy. I'd rather tuck my kids in and night and fall asleep next to my wife, not three ugly dudes.
And.....I never really hooked up with a great singer. :aww:
 
I never pursued music as a career.

This is a hobby for me. Some years I release a CD to my relatives for Christmas. Home recordings and playing bass a church is about all I have time for.

I have had a lot of fun with it. No regrets here.
 
I quit a good band to go to college at night instead of playing guitar.

That is a funny topic though. I was back in an old music store where one of the guys works. He is 50 something, and still working for a little over min wage, no pension, insurance, we all know the deal. I just asked how he was. And in a strange way he was condescending about still being out there trying to make it.

I chose a different path. Happy with corporate America. I can play on the weekends and afford gear if i want it. Just getting to jam along with people that have made it and are retired if cool enough for me. For my moderate skill level, that is making it. I always support friends in bands and buy people's music off here. It is a club type thing. No prob helping a brother out.

And some on here are phenomenal players.... I guess ya just have to write a song like The Macarena..

:lol: :LOL:
 
I don't know why, but it damn sure wasn't because of my tremendous technique, inhumanely good ears, and awe inspiring creativity. Definitely something else.
 
I'm trying to make it at the moment. Went a little bit different than most.

Started playing guitar and listening to rock at age 12, got very good (other's opinion not mine) at rhythm guitar playing and riff writing (wasn't interested in lead playing at the time) and dabbled in band formation etc but being from the Dominican Republic and specially at that time when I was 15, 16, 17 (late 90's) there was no way in hell you could make a living as a rock musician, so I went to college and got a master degree in advertising yadda yadda. After that I realized I wanted to do music and music related stuff, so I went to recording/producing school and studied some more and just 3 years ago I decided I wanted to be a gigging/performing musician, so I wrote an EP and I started the whole "trying to make it".

Just moved to Europe, so I'm setting everything up (tours, recording an EP in english for international market, looking for an agent etc)

According to some ppl I can get quite far based on my writing and performing and I'd like to believe I'm resilient enough. Got the GREAT fortune of not having kids yet (even though I'm 31) and my wife is EXTREMELY supportive of my music career so I don't have a thorn in the ass telling me to "stop dreaming".
 
Worse thing a performer can have - stage fright. I've never gotten over it totally, so I went to school and opened a business. Content just playing with friend these days. Funny thing is I played drums for years before guitar and it never seemed to bother me. I guess starting guitar in my mid 20's didn't help.

-Jason
 
Still trying :thumbsup: ... when I can. Hard to devote the necessary time and devotion when 'real' work and bills consume so much of my current life. Cheers
 
Bob Savage":1b3cmdbm said:
Lost interest because of where the hard rock scene was headed. Got tired of dealing with flakes. Didn't have a unique vision that I thought could succeed at the time. Thought band managers were blood sucking leeches. Didn't want to end up a starving musician. Realized "making it" had a lot to do with luck too and didn't want to rely on that...

This nails it for me.
 
I've been in two bands that were almost there. The first one fell apart as we were in negotiations with the record company. The second chance came to a screeching hault when my daughter was born. I decided that being a "daddy" meant a lot more to me than being a rock star. I have no regrets about my decision. :)
 
Because I took the route of the military, college, then family life, plus I suck!!! :lol: :LOL: :lol: :LOL: :lol: :LOL:
 
I'm 20... Can't really get myself out there in the bar scene... And all the people who play my type of music are old farts

Not that any of you guys are old or anything <.< >.>
 
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