Anybody else have any transgender kids?

[Thumbpicker]

Anyways.. here's Wonderwall.

Is that you playing or PLX or are you the one and the same?

 

[Ben Waylin]

PLX or are you the one and the same ?

No way.. that guy is a boob.

 

[Thumbpicker]

No way.. that guy is a boob.

The first thing that man looks at in a woman is her heart.
The fact that her breasts block the view is not our fault.

 

[Floyd Eye]

The first thing that man looks at in a woman is her heart.
The fact that her breasts block the view is not our fault.

Not me. I'm looking at her tits.

 

[JackBootedThug]

 

[Bad Brain]

Booooo!

 

[Music&Chaos]

I thank God I wasn't born any later. I had/have so many issues and this is crushing to read. It sounds like reading about myself at a young age. The pain, sexual confusion (now made worse by the media and all this trash) and learning to try to accept myself as I was. I have had a tough enough time just trying to be OK with the things we can't change and to try to work on what we can. I definitely wanted to be a girl when I was younger (raised by single mother who was attractive), life seemed far easier, etc. Someone saying that "If you like X, then you are a girl" is so ludicrous. I played with dolls, had an easy bake, went into theater (not gay btw), and in today's world, that would somehow make me a girl. Twisted logic.

You are what you are, can't change that. You can do whatever you'd like to do, it won't change you.

 

[Music&Chaos]

Seems like a lot of people don't understand that hate of self/depression plays a huge role in this. We dislike who we are to a high degree and are looking to run away from that. That is why we go to suicide and things of that nature. Transgender is a new outlet to try to run to, an escape. Not a true escape though, kind of like a twisted hell. Depression is a bitch, and the root(s) of it are different for us all.

 

[Ben Waylin]

I played with dolls, had an easy bake, went into theater (not gay btw)

 

[Music&Chaos]

I should clarify when I say I played with dolls - it was with my female cousin, I did not own them but still. Doesn't make you a boy/girl/gay/straight to enjoy cooking, dancing, singing, and music. I love that movie!

 

[JackBootedThug]

I should clarify when I say I played with dolls - it was with my female cousin, I did not own them but still. Doesn't make you a boy/girl/gay/straight to enjoy cooking, dancing, singing, and music. I love that movie!

you don't have to clarify anything. I'm sure the OP will appreciate your contribution when he sees it.

 

[Thumbpicker]

you don't have to clarify anything. I'm sure the OP will appreciate your contribution when he sees it.

I didn't play with no steeenking dollies

 

[rsm]

Link to full article: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/...sphoria-sex-change-surgery-suing-doctors.html

 

[Ben Waylin]

No they don't.

 

[TheBiggestJerk]

Here's my long winded sob story. Just was looking at the "as clown world turns" thread and saw a picture of a girl with a beard. I want to fucking puke.

Nothing worse than a woman with a beard. And my transgender son (boy in a girls body) wants to start taking T @ age 16
Got all the guessers (doctors) involved and get the usual "of course it's fine, there are no long term physiolocal adverse repercussions for a 16 year old to take Testosterone therapy."

So I respond with. "So the human body is trying to do one thing, and you're going to give a 16 year old Testosterone therapy to make his body do something it was not designed to do." Just blank stares in response.

Sounds like a recipe of disaster.

But I'm outnumbered by the experts and my wife (who is an RN - loves anything big pharma produces) and my kid (16 year old expert on everything.)
Kid already tried to off himself a few years back before he or (she at the time) came out.

I know this has all been discussed before on here. Just wondering how others deal with this shit. I've said what I have to. I operate in the realm of logic.
Kid takes ADHD medicine because he doesn't do enough in life to occupy his mind. School is crippling for him. He's not the type to sit in a chair for 6 hours and listen to a school teacher mumble. He retains nothing, because it's uninteresting AF. Same as I was.

According to modern logic, the kid is Transgender. Can't just be gay. Nope, Transgender. My opinion of course. They have highly educated Harvard Grads figuring out the terminology for this and how to worm their agenda into the school curicullum in order to brainwash everything.

Kid is on Anti-depressent medicaiton. Instead of all the therapists, doctors and my wife and him listening to what I have to say. The fact is, 99% of the reason the kid is depressed is because of his sexual situation (figuring himself out) and only working 3 hours a week pushing shopping carts at the supermarket, and having way way too much free time on his hands. Then coming home, drinking a monster energy drink full of sugar, staying up till 2am and waking up at 6 and going to school. The sugar has nothing to do with the depression, or the 5 recees peanut butter cups he ate right before bed, washing it down with monster energy drinks.

I feel partly responsible because of my piss poor attitude about life. But I don't take meds and will not. I don't think I'm overly depressed, I've had deep dark clinical depression and now I exercise and take supplements and consume less sugar. I'm out of the hole. The only thing that drags me down is lack of sun in New England for 6 months out of the year and the fact that I'm a working slave. I try my best to help the kid with the depression, but I feel defeated that big pharma has won out.

I can't say much or be too harsh as the kid is very mentally fragile. I'm complety supportive regarding him figuring out his sexuality. I allow him to wear the shit he wears (think punk rocker) and bring him to get some piercings (to express his individuality) but it's the drug thing that scares the shit out of me. I don't know what else I can do. I mean I didn't listen to my parents either as a teen. But these drugs can potentially have a life long impact.

Anyhow, this is why I like to get myself paralyzed on Saturdays when I pound beers and listen to thrash metal to forget about life for 5-6 hours. LOL.

Look forward to taking the kid to some heavy metal shows this summer. Went to Anthrax last year and found a band on a side stage called Municipal Waste and with me and the kid moshing, it was the most fun I've had in a long time.

It sounds more like you have been feminized and thus have become a milquetoast father. How about go back in time grow a set of stones and be the actual patriarch of your family.
Weak men and weak fathers produce weak people. Hard truth.

 

[Monkey Man]

@TheBiggestJerk dude, cut the guy some slack won't ya?

@Stumplegriltskin I agree with your take on this. Kudos to you for sticking by your logically-thought-out position.

These kids. You can't tell 'em anything sometimes. Sounds like she has "masculine" interests and is just plain-ol' lesbian, something that in-theory shouldn't be at all challenging for you to deal with, but then, as you say, she's an expert and no doubt defers to "expert" academia.

You can't win other than if after a few years she sees the "error" of the path she chose and decides to lay off the hormones.

I feel for you bro'; it must be ridiculously-frustrating. It's you against the missus, the daughter ("son") and the boffins who peddle that nonsense. I lost my housemate in a situation where it was me vs his nurse sister, brainwashed mom and the medicos. I knew and could demonstrate what was up but you know what they did? Shut me down and even kicked me out of the hospital when they didn't want to hear what I had to say. Had to watch my best buddy die on oxycontin tabs, then liquid whilst his mind went AWOL and he dropped to 42kg. His sister and I carried him out of my place like a bag of dried dog food (ridiculously-light). 2 days later he was gone.

That was in 2004 and I'm still not the same person I was. I can only hope that you can compartmentalise this shit as best you can - put it on ice, so to speak, with the possibility that as I suggested, one day the youngster comes 'round. Good luck brother.

 

[TheBiggestJerk]

@TheBiggestJerk dude, cut the guy some slack won't ya?

@Stumplegriltskin I agree with your take on this. Kudos to you for sticking by your logically-thought-out position.

These kids. You can't tell 'em anything sometimes. Sounds like she has "masculine" interests and is just plain-ol' lesbian, something that in-theory shouldn't be at all challenging for you to deal with, but then, as you say, she's an expert and no doubt defers to "expert" academia.

You can't win other than if after a few years she sees the "error" of the path she chose and decides to lay off the hormones.

I feel for you bro'; it must be ridiculously-frustrating. It's you against the missus, the daughter ("son") and the boffins who peddle that nonsense. I lost my housemate in a situation where it was me vs his nurse sister, brainwashed mom and the medicos. I knew and could demonstrate what was up but you know what they did? Shut me down and even kicked me out of the hospital when they didn't want to hear what I had to say. Had to watch my best buddy die on oxycontin tabs, then liquid whilst his mind went AWOL and he dropped to 42kg. His sister and I carried him out of my place like a bag of dried dog food (ridiculously-light). 2 days later he was gone.

That was in 2004 and I'm still not the same person I was. I can only hope that you can compartmentalise this shit as best you can - put it on ice, so to speak, with the possibility that as I suggested, one day the youngster comes 'round. Good luck brother.

I absolutely will not! This is epidemic at this point. Had this guy stood up to family instead of letting them push him around he would NOT be in this position. Tim Walz would be proud.
Second I’ve worked in a hospital for the better part of 25y. I’ve seen every kind of absurdity you could possibly imagine in the ultra liberal town of Eugene Oregon… from 2014-2019 something changed. I saw many female nurse devolve in this direction and many of those woman also suddenly had trans kids. It seems as you did they also bought into the propaganda.
I see you’re also calling her HE, when she is actually a she. So who has this problem?

 

[Stumplegriltskin]

@Monkey Man Thanks boss. I don't really get too offended by internet comments. I try to set a good example for my kids. I'm a vet, I keep everything clean as fuck and operate my crib like a military outfit. My kids are both are polite and respectable people. They use ma'am, sir, etc.... So right there is number 1 in my book and everything else falls after that. They are both empaths, kind and compassionate towards all life.

The kid I'm referring to in this thread, now 18, Jesse, always played with dinosaurs, trucks and trains when he was younger (and a girl). Zero interest in dolls and girl stuff. I didn't think about it much at the time. At 15 years old, he OD'd on pills. Digging at the root of the matter, he came clean and told us he is a male with a female body, and hates having a female body. So much so, he wanted to exit the planet. This was prior to the school system confusing the shit out of kids with the he/she/they/them bullshit.

So, since the school system has confused the shit out of developing kids, a kid can no longer be gay or lesbian. They've made the problem worse. So I asked him, or her at the time, what would make him more comfortable. Answer? Us accepting him as a male and changing his name to Jesse. DONE.

Now you get all these fucking experts on here that have no idea what the fuck they are talking about. Saying it's my fault, etc... They haven't lived it, so they have zero fucking clue what the fuck they are talking about. I look at it like this, simply. Do I know what it feels like to have one body, but feel mentally otherwise? No. So I show compassion, towards something that I can't understand. I'd rather have my kid alive, then dead. Female, Male, they, them, etc... I don't agree with the they, them bullshit, but whatever.

My kid is alive. He's working a job, just got a car, has a boyfriend for almost a year, and they cook, eat whole foods, smoke a little weed, spend minimal time on devices and most of the time out in the woods with trail cams, recovering dead animals which they skin and prep the hides, etc... fucking gross if you ask me, but they're out in nature, not getting their brains warped by social media and the internet. So for all you that thing somehow this is my fault, or Jesus is going to fix the gay away, fucking go fucking fuck yourself. I think the reason this happened is fertility drugs my wife used to get pregnant. Just an intuitive feeling I have, I don't care if medical data says otherwise.

 

[Stumplegriltskin]

I absolutely will not! This is epidemic at this point. Had this guy stood up to family instead of letting them push him around he would NOT be in this position. Tim Walz would be proud.
Second I’ve worked in a hospital for the better part of 25y. I’ve seen every kind of absurdity you could possibly imagine in the ultra liberal town of Eugene Oregon… from 2014-2019 something changed. I saw many female nurse devolve in this direction and many of those woman also suddenly had trans kids. It seems as you did they also bought into the propaganda.
I see you’re also calling her HE, when she is actually a she. So who has this problem?

You sir, are a class A fucking ASSHOLE.
You are obviously very passionate about this subject matter? Maybe consider lopping off your cock?

 

[TheBiggestJerk]

You sir, are a class A fucking ASSHOLE.
You are obviously very passionate about this subject matter? Maybe consider lopping off your cock?

Your last sentence explains it all!
Spoken like a true brainwashed liberal democrat. Call names and throw rocks when you lose, because you’ve taken no responsibility for that which you were responsible for… raising a daughter, not a dickless son.

Don’t shoot the messenger. You’re only pissed because it’s true. You and your family bought into the bullshit hook line and sinker and now everything is all fucked up and you don’t know what to do. That’s my fault? What did you think was gonna happen here friend?