Aristocat":2gtg0hg9 said:
Kapo_Polenton":2gtg0hg9 said:
What is probably even more sad, is the fact that as men, we are expected to spend anywhere from 2-10k on a little thing called an engagement ring.... imagine those things didn't have to be purchased? Those of you who are married could already have that Friedman or Bogner! If you are divorced, that becomes even more clear....
+1000
I want to get my guitar refinished and get a new road bike.
Even with a jewelers discount through connections, I'm still looking at 3,000 out of pocket.
Rupe called it big time. Who gives a shit how much you make. It's all relative.
Talk about 'mark up'.
I worked in a pawn shop way back when I finished college, when BIG hair was still in style.

I saw and learned what gold, and diamond jewelry are really worth on the actual metal and gem market.
A lot less than what retail asks, obviously, but I mean a LOT less.
Granted, some pieces are truly art as there is a lot of work involved, so for those it goes beyond the wholesale price of the materials used.
For the vast majority of engagement and wedding rings the retail prices are way over what the materials are actually worth.
That's why I always recommend that couples shop at pawn shops.
You will get more for your money easily. You can have a better quality diamond. and a larger size. AND spend a good amount less.
But, I typically get this from the ladies, "I don't want a USED diamond ring."
What they don't know is that there is no such thing as a "used diamond", really.
You can buy the ring or set, then take it to a jeweler who can refresh and size the rings and they look brand spanking new when done, and you save A LOT of money, often 1/4 of what it would cost at new retail.
Many new rings are made with diamonds that have been resold-reused in the wholesale market from places such as pawn shops.
On the items that don't sell we would remove the diamond or other gems and sell those to a wholesaler, and same with the gold.
You can buy a nice quality diamond at a pawn shop and then have a custom ring made and still be way ahead, and you'll have something more special.
BTW, diamond "chips" that they put on rings are there so they can push up the carat weight/size and the price along with it.
Any diamond smaller than 1/10 of a carat is worth nothing. When we valued diamonds we only counted anything above 1/10 of a carat by measurement. Buy larger single stones, not a lot of chips.
I digress.
And by doing the above you will have more to spend on something of real value, yes, those over-priced customized amps!