Re the "debate" about whether you should or shouldn't surgically correct anomalies that incur "societal pressure":
I lost one my big front teeth the other day and the other's not far behind. Within minutes I was making some pretty-good jokes about it and was "over it". I couldn't give two craps what people think. I'm happy to keep it as a memento of my decades-long battles with heavy-metals and autoimmune.
If the huge gap offends anyone, I say pay to get it fixed or you're overplaying the effect it has on you.