I'm not reading this shit, but yeah, fucking duh. I'm not buying a bunch of guitars and playing shitty metalcore to impress the ladies. I do it for me, and in turn the bois.
Gym bros are like this too.
Car douches are like this.
People who collect sneakers, hats (me), and other clothing are like this. We put on our garments, pose in front of the mirror, post on social media. Who likes? The guys who are also interested in the same clothing. Girls? Ha, they probably laugh at me.
And the flip side is: Girls do it too. Nails? What dude is like, "yo, those long ass pointy things are so amazing, slay queen." We're not. Same goes for girl's fits, bags, bag accessories, etc.