D-Rock":1fqumddf said:
The OP clearly has a form of OCD. Ever notice his posts are often long, self serving, meandering, linguistic nightmares?
Here's are a short read on the matter;
You’re afraid of being proven wrong. If you talk a lot about how things should be and then shut down someone who questions you, it’s more than likely that you know your position has cracks. You simply can’t handle the possibility that the other person might prove you wrong or suggest something that is legitimately a better way.
You lack the ability to tackle difficult problems. If you live in fear of being proven wrong, chances are you’re not good at solving problems and reaching common ground with people. You may see yourself as powerful, but it shows you are weak.
You have unresolved issues. You shut people down because they are touching a nerve, bringing up something so painful that you can’t bear it. I’m more sympathetic to this category of people. But they are still being unkind.
Who the hell are you loser? I'm successful. I've built a career helping people and saving lives. I have traveled the country and the world in an official capacity. I have 4 degrees, including a bachelors in computer science and doctorate in social science. Who the hell are you to think you have a place to talk down to me? Maybe you and the rest of your illiterate little buddies should step off of your high horsies and develop some reading comprehension. It probably never occurred to you that I'm an accomplished man, but that's because you probably expect everyone else to be a dull and petty as you are. Next time you go mouthing off with such arrogance and grandiloquence, remember that there are a lot of people far better men than you will ever be. Don't talk to me about fears and issues, because I've seen things that would give you trauma. You want to talk about facing difficult issues, then you're talking to the wrong person. How ignorant of you to make assumptions about me when you don't know jack shit.
When you've lost those closest to you; when you've attained the highest education; when you've built a successful career doing something meaningful for the world; when you've made the sacrifices few people are willing to make; only then can have you earned the right to speak to me about it. Until then, you're just a disillusioned little loser who is far out of his depth.
If you had any intelligence or common sense, then you'd learn how to really listen to people and discern things. It obviously never occurred to you that I might know what the hell I'm talking about. It never occurred to you that I have the ability to analyze things to a deep level. To you my posts may be long and linguistic, but that's because you're not well-read or educated. When you've written volumes of research, it becomes nothing to write a few paragraphs. It's obvious you're not academic because if you were, it wouldn't be such a challenge for you. Try reading hundreds of pages every day for years. Try writing a dissertation, defend it before a panel of PHDs, and prove real scientific studies. When you've done that, then you've earned the right to speak to me. As of now, you're just a confused fool who is not smart enough to discern who really knows what they're talking about and who doesn't.
